SBS -- the institution

This is about the Mardi Gras party I was at this past Saturday at SBS's house. It was a little wild. A couple of highlight that are not in the audiopost:

• Several girls were trying to take my shirt off
• SBS flashed me. .... It was proof that I want things to go well between us
• Several different girls were smacking my ass thru out the night
  

US Patent office will not support... a N*gga

This article is silly. It talks about how Damon Wayans is trying to trademark the word Nigga. It has been declined by the US Trademark and patent office. Wayans is trying to start a "Nigga" clothing line.

I can see it now.... Nigga Clothing brought to by Damon Wayans.(**cue street sounding black male**) If you wanted to be a real NIGGA.... All you have to do is by the clothes.

Half of me , wishes that the patent office will accept his application. I would love to see Bill Cosby and other older black Americans get in an uproar about it. Seeing urban America dressed in Nigga clothing by Damon Wayans... that would definitely be life in living color.

Few Years Left before stupid...

I think that the common consensus among my friends is that boys are stupid and girls are crazy. But I would like to add that these effects get worse over time, if the person is single. I have a couple of examples.

My friend that is down in DC and is expecting his first child told me a story about his 35 year old single sister. She was telling him that she was excited about this man that she met. She told her brother that she thinks it is getting serious. So, the natural follow-up question a brother would ask is, how long have you been seeing this man. She answers him.... a week. What!!! see... crazy!

Another story, more proof, I had a co-worker that sat near me. He is 45ish. He's divorced with 2 or 3 kids. He met a woman in our building. She is single never married, 35ish years old. After 3 months of dating, he announces to me hat they are engaged. ????.... see...stupid!!! His basic reason,"when you know you." He has been complaining about her ever since. "If she does not shape-up...this wedding is not going to happen." This why you do not get engaged after 3 months... stupid!

I'm not too close to 30 but single... I'm hoping that I will not get too stupid. I think that the craziness starts a little earlier in women. In my mind this why men date younger women. Simply less crazy...

Men and Monsters

I when out to see Capote last night. It was a good movie. I recommend it. Capote is a bit of a downer. Walked out of that movie a little bit depressed.

But I did enjoy one of the central theme's in the movie. What do real life monsters look like? Would you recognize evil, if you look at it in the face? I have ponders these questions before. Capote ponders these same questions.

When we are young we are taught that monsters live in caves; they are have claws and fangs or look like dragons or other non-real shapes. It is only later we learn that monsters walk among us.

I'm an anti-depressant

My friend did not believe me when I told her that, yes it's true,I'm an anti-depressant. It is more accurate to say that my semen is an anti-depressant. This was reported in the news several years back in 2002. Gordon Gallup believes that mood-altering hormones in semen that are absorbed through the vagina can help improve a woman's mood.


Come on, that is cool! People have attacked Dr. Gallup's research and pointed out weakness in his methodology. But it does not mean that he is wrong. So more research is needed. The heart of science is repetition. At this point, I know that it is not ready to be added to textbooks yet. But it is a lovely idea... see honey I'm good for something. And I can make you happy, some scientist have said so.


It's not like that I'm not going to have safe sex. But if I'm in a steady monogamous relationship, I'll offer to pay for half of her pills.


Below are some links for your reference. So you can see that I'm not making this up.


BBC
New Scientist
Salon
Psychology Today

acknowledgment

Fine, I'll admit it. I miss her a little bit today. Not that me and this girl would have been in the same city. I think that today being Valentine's day the world seems a little bigger. In the sense that, today feels like a void, a large vast space of nothingness. I miss her because she made the world feel smaller. She was a type of filter, the void has meaning thru my relationship with her. We connect to world via the relationships that we have in it. Today I remember how I felt about my surroundings when I had her in my life. My viewpoint from this year in comparison to last year's has changed. I miss her because I recognize that I preferred last year's view.

It is not that I do not have options. It is not that I do not believe that I'll never regain a similar viewpoint. I can sense that a new love is around the corner. I guess today I remember and feel it again that she is gone from my life. Not that I want her back, we broke for a reason, I'm simply nostalgic for the past.

Happy V-day!

A week sponsored by the letter S.

There is a cute coincidence in my social calendar this week. All the women that I will be hanging out with this week first names start with the letter S. SC,SBS,SZ are the initials of all the women.

SC, I can't read her to safe my life. We currently hang-out and play squash or work-out. I think that she is hard to read because she is a little aloof. I'm not sure if she has noticed that I'm interested in her beyond her just being my squash partner. We have been playing a long game of phone and txting tag. She called this past Saturday night at about 10:30 in evening, she was in New York. I missed the call but I still think that this a good sign. I planning on playing squash with this weekend and continue my slow wooing of this attractive and athletic lady. I have been advised not to rush in typical djlike form. OK....

SBS, I will meet for the first time in person this week. When I was in Denver last week. Matt and I when to a event for the ACS(American Cancer Society), a martini tasting. It was not a bad deal, 5 dollars and 5 martini samples. At this event, Matt and I chatted up these two girls Alison and Melissa. Matt was talking to Alison. I was talking to Melissa. Over the course of the night, I learn that Melissa has a leave-in boyfriend... great! She tells be that she have a girlfriend in Boston that would adore me. Adore... who does not want more fans? She calls her friend SBS and we talk for moment. By time I was off the phone we had plans to talk when I was back in town. So, we'll see.

SZ is an old co-worker of mine. We got together a couple of weeks ago. And we make a promise that we would not wait eon before we see each other again. But in the mean time, she has been emailing me more. She have been calling me at work,"just to talk". She is been a little more overly flirty, that she usually is. It seems like things are starting to add up... but... one can't always be sure if a woman like you. She could be just being friendly? We have a plan to meet up on Saturday night. I'll play this by ear. I'm not completely sure what so expect from her or this.

We will see how a week sponsored by the letter S goes. Pray for me.